This isn’t all that easy, because most people fall into it unawares. Groups tend to self-select those who are of like mind, and to force out, like viruses, those who aren’t. It’s a natural process with built-in rationale; we don’t want in our midst nay-sayers, negativity, non-team players, and the like. It all makes pretty good sense.
But it can be poison. Often, the disagreement you confront is not arbitrary, but represents healthy diversity dedicated as strongly as you to accomplishing the same goals. Sometimes, even when it is arbitrary, it can still serve your purposes.
I’ll give you a fairly extreme example of this, to help highlight the main points: I was once involved in a project of vital importance to my organization, which required our moving into what for us turned out to be uncharted conceptual territory (we hadn’t realized this, at first). Once we broke the intellectual code, we began to generate some good, inventive ideas for advancing our cause in this area.
Except for one of our members. He was unable to make the perceptual transition necessary to accurately understanding and dealing with the new terrain of our endeavor. Aware that he was not getting it, and was starting to be cut out of the herd for that failing, he became increasingly contrary, criticizing our proposals with what we saw as infuriating nit-picking.
However, for all that he couldn’t bring himself to countenance what he sincerely felt was a dangerously unconventional approach, he was quite intelligent, with a sharp eye for detail and the cascading effects of discrete events. So, despite the real drain he was on our energy, I resisted suggestions that we remove or completely marginalize him.
Instead, we made sure to present our proposals to him. He devastated them both with his unpleasant ill-will and his incisive assessment of their practicality. We then reviewed his criticisms, dismissed those that were irrelevant, addressed those that were vital weaknesses we – lacking his habit of thought – had missed, and then re-presented the proposals to him until our plan withstood his assaults.
The result was proposals that were approved without dissent by the top boss, and that also turned out to be of signal importance to the overall fortunes of the organization. In retrospect, it is clear that our outfit’s results would have been dangerously different had we not only not conceived of our proposals, but also had we not subjected them to contrasting – and even hostile – opinion.
Diversity can be difficult for your team. But its lack can be devastating for your entire enterprise. Open your decision-making process to it. Those decisions that survive the exposure will undoubtedly be more robust and healthy for it.
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My thanks to Robert May for his excellent piece on this topic posted at Businesspundit.com, which served to bring to mind for me the topic of today’s essay. Please stop over and view Rob’s insightful article.
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What an act of patience and wisdom, Jim.
I’m visualizing your group and thinking “Would I have the patience and insight to hang in there and do that?” I’m ashamed to say I’m not so sure.
Something else that interests me and might be helpful to other readers is this: You must have had to convince the rest of the prospective lynch mob to hang in there.
If that was so, the story could be very enlightening.
Steve,
Thank you for your visit and your always gracious comments.
The truth is, after an initial, sort of “drive by” attack on our ideas, it was immediately clear to me that we needed very much to incorporate the additional discipline of this person’s manner of thinking into our proposals before presenting them formally.
Ironically, the flip side of his inability to properly view the problem and means of solving it was the very cap to our ability to produce a professionally finished product.
I would love to say that our keeping him in the team reflected our elevated character, but the truth is: we were lucky to discover early on that we simply had no choice!
I really think that most of us, really, don’t. We need the continuous irritation of diversity of thinking and opinion to avoid the cataclysm of disaster that typically follows on the false bliss of groupthink.
As for the story about keeping him in the group and managing his presence without mayhem ensuing, that is a bit of a tale; maybe I’ll tell it at some point.
Thanks again, Steve, for your kind comments.
I’m currently experiencing a similar situation at work, I won’t get into many details (since it’s my current job), but due to the time invested in training this person, we want to see them stay on the team and contribute successfully. Your post is great inspiration for finding the positive impact of frustrating professional relationships.
Thank you, Adam, for your visit and for sharing your current experience. I hope it works out for all of you. I’m sure we’ll all be very interested to learn how things develop, so please do stop back and let us know.
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